In her life thus far, Erin Kotecki Vest aka @QueenofSpain is and has been many things. Social media strategist and broadcast journalist, two name two. And, as she puts it, she’s all of these things when not disabled by lupus.

Yeah, lupus. Learn more about it here. #Suckitlupus

OneChicklette: Your favorite qualities in a love interest

@QueenofSpain: They must be smart. No idiots.

OneChicklette: Your chief characteristic (one word)

@QueenofSpain: Merciless

OneChicklette: What you appreciate most in your friends

@QueenofSpain: Loyalty

OneChicklette: Your idea of happiness

@QueenofSpain: Relaxing while listening to the ocean

OneChicklette: Your idea of misery

@QueenofSpain: a pampered chef or candle or baby shower type party with GAMES

OneChicklette: Your favorite fictional character

@QueenofSpain: Scarlett O’Hara

OneChicklette: Your favorite thing to eat, and also to drink

@QueenofSpain: Eat: Fresh cracked crab dipped in butter with a hot sauce & a beer

OneChicklette: Five tangible things you can’t live without

@QueenofSpain: my phone, my laptop, my pills, my IV infusions, my family

OneChicklette: What’s the number one item on your bucket list? (question via @SaraLang)

@QueenofSpain: to look and feel like myself again and run a 5k

@OneChicklette: Who do you know via social media that you’re dying to meet in real life? (this question came via @Tammy)

@QueenofSpain: Queen Latifah

@OneChicklette: How many days do you think you would you go without speaking a single word, if you were being paid $100,000 a day for every consecutive day you didn’t speak? (this amazing question came via @BrianSpaeth)

@QueenofSpain: 2 months. Maybe.

OneChicklette: via @AndiLavs What was the last kind thing you did?

@QueenofSpain: gave money to a family that needed it this Xmas, even though it means my mortgage will be late

OneChicklette: A question I should ask the next participant

@QueenofSpain: Which social media platform would you give up if you were forced to give up one?

OneChicklette: Random shout out 

@QueenofSpain: oh geeez… well… um… Mothers Fighting for Others .. check them out and help!